Within the Lagos state University campus, there seems to be increasing concern among students on cyberbullying trends. Amisu Olalekan examines the most common methods, trends and offer solution
Cyberbullying, a rising concern in the digital age, is wreaking havoc on the lives of students, particularly in Lagos State University. The anonymity provided by internet emboldens individuals to engage in hurtful and damaging behavior, inflicting emotional and mental distress on their victims.
Cyberbullying occurs through digital technologies such as social media platforms, messaging apps, and anonymous websites. It involves repeated acts of intimidation, shaming, or threatening targeted individuals. At LASU, WhatsApp groups and online anonymous platforms are the major mediums used by these “keyboard warriors” to unleash their malicious intentions.
One of the victims , Mahbubah, a mass communication student, experienced a traumatizing incident when her name was included in an anonymous message filled with false and degrading allegations. Shocked and emotionally scarred, she questioned the motives behind such malicious behavior.
“It is emotionally draining to be a victim. I do not think jealousy is one of the root causes of it on campus, because I have always been an easy going person” Mahbudah said. I am always on my own. It’s more like this person wanted to be my friend at all costs. And I believe you should let relationship come naturally and not to be forced.
There was this particular day they hosted anonymous conversation on my class group and this person included my names and wrote all sort of disgusting things about me accusing me of suffering from bipolar disorder. This anonymous individual also stated s/he wish me dead. I actually cried for days after reading this because of such level of hatred. After careful investigation, I discovered who wrote such nasty thing about me, She did apologize
Cyberbullying also takes a toll on victims like Teminikan, who faced false accusations and damaging rumors. The distressing impact not only affected her academic performance but also drove her to contemplate self-harm. Fortunately, she sought help from the counseling unit and faculty members, who offered support and guidance to aid her recovery.
She said: “When it happened to me, the first thing that came to mind was to commit suicide. I took help to have a rethink. The attacker results to name calling and character assassination. I did report to the Dean of Student Affairs, Dr. Olumoko and some lecturers. I’m 85% fine and thanks to the head of counselling unit Dr. Ayeni who talked to me, I’m getting better”
Mahbubah and Teminikan’s experiences are typical examples of cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is a rising concern among students in the digital age with grave consequences for victims. It involves repeated acts of intimidation, shaming, or threatening targeted individuals. It does inflict emotional and mental distress on their victims.
The motive of the attacker, what victim should do
Dr. Ayeni, the head of the counseling unit at LASU when consulted, explained that bullies often harbor low self-esteem and use cyberbullying as a defense mechanism. However, this should not serve as an excuse for their harmful actions. Cyberbullying has far-reaching consequences, including suicide, mental health issues, increased stress, anxiety, and depression. Even after the bullying ceases, victims may continue to suffer long-lasting emotional effects. He also highlighted the initiatives LASU has to offer help to these victims.
Dr Joseph Ayeni, Head counselling unit, Lagos state University.(photo credit: LinkedIn)
“It is essential for victims of cyberbullying to come forward and seek support from appropriate authorities. LASU offers channels such as the counselling unit, student affairs division, and student union welfare director to address such cases confidentially and effectively.”
While eradicating cyberbullying entirely may be challenging due to individual rights, raising awareness about its devastating effects is crucial, the perpetrators, who hide behind their keyboards, must realize the gravity of their actions and understand the profound impact their words can have on others’ lives.
Empathy and compassion should replace cruelty and malice in online interactions. The LASU community must unite to create a safe and respectful online environment for all.
*Amisu Samad Olalekan is a campus journalist at Lagos state University
